Honestly, the best way to make sure this is done correctly is to consult an attorney since every case is so different. Many do 30min to an hour initial conversations for free.
Erin Graber at Graber Law is wonderful and also Elysia Pendergast-Jones at LegalAid is an amazing resource, too. Maybe start by looking at Interact’s website for resource links.
I’ve been through the Wake County Family Court system since 2009 and consider my family a success story. Please email or PM me any time. I’ll happily meet you for coffee to just listen. ❤️